Success

Define Success?!
According to Wikipedia Success is

• a level of social status
• achievement of an objective/goal
• the opposite of failure

Seem pretty simple isn't it to define Success in these terms. So you take this simple terms to every single person, then EVERYONE is a Success!! "You're the Sperm that is the Harder, Better, Stronger & managed to penetrate the Ovum" = What does this mean? It means were are made Successful from the day we were born.

Can we say that failure is what we defined it as it is? Then again without failures we won't be a success rite? So can we conclude that Failure = Success?

Did you know a sperm fails a lot times before they can actually penetrate and with the right opportunity and right timing it is the successful one? I feel I really learned the most during this past 12 months compared to the rest of the years. In my existing job, I remembered one of Rico Tan's phrase, he said if someone is just a little better than you, he is better than you. There goes what PhilipKhor is talking about, what is the difference between No 1 and No 2?

Opportunities don't come easy. A lot people ask me why do we study so hard or even bother to study? I tell them simple, though we don't use 90% of what we study it improves the way we think, the way we handle problems and increases our potential for something greater.

Imagine eg. if you were destined to be a super great scientist but you didn't even bother to study for your science exams (you never know if you're even good or not good at it , can't prove your worth because you didn't even give your best). The potential or chance for greater purpose is then limited. Be Daring to FAIL and be WILLING to learn as much as you can.

I've learned a sure lot from my dad. Why do I mention him because he is really someone I put my pride in (never told him, didn't make it look like that). Though sometimes, I do find he can be quite extreme and unreasonable but I still love him and if I be tolerant and stand in his shoes I can understand him. Time to time when people ask him to do under-table things he chose to hold his Integrity (not resolving to peer pressure). I remember what he always tell his staff or me - Do your best in your job/role don't try to be lazy (tau lan) when you are working, you might be doing a simple task/job and if you keep showing you're good, people will give you opportunity. If he knows people who wants to give opportunity, he promotes it to his staff and encourages them to move on for the better (unlike others I see they just want to hold you back from opportunities).

Sometimes when we cannot see an opportunity, we actually miss it and if we are not careful it might not even be a opportunity. In end of day principles are very important eg humility, love. Few months back my dad was given lots of opportunities eg there was one that if he worked at it in 2 years time he would have accumulated 5 million but you know what, he chose not take it. Due to principles and promises he didn't take it up. I'm trying to say Timing vs Opportunity is everything. He just want to be able to spend more time with the family, continue to have a good health and value what is more important in this world.

What is a factor we cannot control? It is time. We can exchange time for money, health and everything else but tell me, what can you exchange for time? Today even in business world sometimes it is not how rich you are is how fast you can become rich.

Do you know why I love businesses? The fact of using the Theory of Leveraging. My view is simple everyone has 24 hours. Eg: If I'm good in something and I train A, B, C to be the same as me and they work for an hour. Then I already cheated on time I have 27 hours because I leverage 3 hours on A B C. So it goes on and on, if I ask A, B and C to duplicate eventually I have plenty of time and a continuous incoming cash flow. According to 4 quadrants of Robert Kiyosaki, Big business = 1000 staff. So imagine, if you have 1000 staff, each just work for an hour there you go you have 1000 hours in your hand. I sleep, eat, play and someone is doing my/your job. Yes you can't exchange anything for Time but you can make more efficient use of TIME.

Mind my drawing I used Open Office. My view of doing a business plan.

Eg = You see the Market for food at that time is not so good, so McD use the right timing to release a idea (could be old or new) and McD execute it with speed the RM5.99 plan.

Bottom-line
- Sometimes we don't see the problem till we actually face the problem
- We learn everyday but learn most from mistakes (I used this theory on learning sometimes. Eg I go purposely find the ways I can fail and from it I realize how to beat the system)
- Be thankful for how successful you are today, you were BLESSED
- Timing is everything eg: like in relationships, if you said the right thing at the right time it works
- Market vs Timing vs Speed execution of Business plans is important
- Like a lot oldies song, in the end all that matters is Love (principles and values)
- Everyone is deemed successful and how we make out of it is how we define it
- If today you fail, learn to get back up and not use ways to give yourself excuse to give up (eg. suicide)
- Not many people can understand the potential of networking or business, it's all good to lessen the number of competitors in the market
- Your potential is limited the minute you say YOU KNOW or YOU CHOSE NOT TO LEARN ANYMORE.

Ps: You see in the past, I don't think I will even share this things. From the blogging experience I think if you see my oldest post to now I've learn to express more on my blog. Then again now of days my posts get longer. Thanks to those who've been following me on my blog posts and especially for the encouragements on msn, chatbox, emails, calls in the recent months and I'm glad that some of my posts do inspire you all.

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Few hours after I post this I realised TED posted a video on success. COINCIDENCE here goes below.

8 KEYS TO SUCCESS
PASSION, WORK, FOCUS, PERSIST, IDEAS, GOOD, PUSH, SERVE
Have a passion for it. Work for it (practice). Be creative on ideas by listening, observing, being curious, asking more questions and solving problems. Focus on things at hand. Persist to fail and simply persist in everything. Be good at what you plan to do. Push yourself for improvement everyday. Aim to serve.

Congratulations

For a moment like this, some people wait a life time. Congratulations Cousin Jessen & Pauline!

eg of a picture using 3.0 mp (my phone)

eg of a picture using 10mp sony w170 camera

Hand pick the available photos I have the rest is with all the professional camera people lol.

Male & Female are Complementary

What does it mean to be a man? What does it mean to be a woman? We have assumed, presumed, guessed and confused ourselves as we search for the true meaning. Have we lost our way? How do we navigate through the confusion, media pressure and our past, to find the truth? Who will show the way? [ very interesting questions hor]

I went to this talked called Return Of The King. Thanks to Celest and Lukas for my tickets (I saw the write up and was interested didn't know need to buy tickets, lucky for those two people I got a ticket)

What is man and womanhood? The biggest issue now in our society is the gender question.

What makes a man, a man and a woman, a woman? Good question hor?
It all actually starts from being a person. Which is called Person-hood. Now this is what I have experienced and did talk about it to some people I've known. When you're in a relationship at a young age, you don't have time to actually develop your person-hood. That is why most of the relationships don't last called puppy love. I read in Dr. James Dobson books, the age between secondary school to college/university life is the most important years. That is where you set your values, make most out of your mistakes and if possible meet the right company/friends which also determines a big part of your future. Being stable in character, values and finding true self actually is time you are spent alone.

Person-hood - Who you are regardless of gender and views of public.

So actually who are we? How do people actually look at us or how do we look at people? What is right? Person-hood is actually values of an innate person. It is not so about equal rights, but equal values. Ps. Dr Lew Lee Choo and Ps Dr Chew Weng Chee stated that when you forgive it is not about right or wrong. It is to validate the person in the image of God. That is really a great thought. What she meant was we are supposed to view people in the image of God, VALIDATION.

Validation = Person-hood in God's eyes.

We all want to be validated as a person don't we? Most of the time we want to be fulfilled. We can be fulfilled only when people agree that we are a person with great values. I admit myself that it is so true. I want people to see me as a man of principle. Lets just say if a building is RM x Billion, it is a fact. So you can either believe it, don't believe, be skeptical about it or don't care about it BUT no matter what it is remains the same.

What Ps. Dr Lew Lee Choo said which I want to share is that Both M/F have similar tasks. A man feels down when he doesn't get his SIGNIFICANCE and a woman feels down when she doesn't feel her WORTH. She depictions the violin and a guitar. Can a guitar be used in a orchestra? Sure definitely. Can a violin be played in a band? Sure definitely but can a violin play like the role as a guitar and vice versa? Nope. They each play their own role and that is what M/F is about.

What is important to MAN? It boils down to three main categories which are Identity, Responsibility and Blame. Being able to hold up responsibility is the mark of a grown-up. We all have responsibilities and we all know it isn't easy sometimes. Time to time when we don't/can't take up our responsibilities we become the blame people person.

The question I like to ask is this, WHAT DEFINES YOUR WORTH LADIES? & WHAT DEFINES YOUR SIGNIFICANCE GENTLEMAN?

So there you go again, the opposite sex compliments each other ^^
The thing about guys that a lot girls don't know is we are wired to have egos. It's a true fact, just how big it is. The worst punishment for a guy is to humiliate them in public. In fact, Ps. Dr Chew said guys are wired to be leaders. What I am trying to share is not in the sense that ladies can't be leaders too. It is just that we are not just designed for leadership, we are also destined for leadership (Visible). Woman are normally happy to let men lead if the men would rise up? Is it true? We actually perform at best when we play functions as the leader. Winning actually generates momentum and morale for Men (Victorious). The man must be the vision of the family or is the Vision of the relationship (where it is going, how far, where to aim)

So ideally a Man should be Visionary, Visible and Victorious.

As for Ladies/Woman, must learn to embrace womanhood.
For the ladies, Ps. Dr Lew Lee Choo said that it is important to Value Your Looks. When you ladies look good you actually add value to what God made you for. Woman need to value their looks in God's view and not peoples view or rather a beautician's view.

She also said that normally people who try to over show/dress to kill (can see too much skin) or don't dress/act like a girl, shows how not comfortable you are with your looks. So she said God made you that way, so you should learn to value your looks and admire your beauty. The funny thing she said was "When you become a wife don't let go of your looks". She said this explaining that a woman's looks actually complements a guy (so true). Not overdress or overkill la in that sense. Example if you dress in a way the generates lust from all the guys in the room it is just not decent la! Who wants to have someone who is the object of everyone's eyes. Imagine that girl/lady is your wife or your sister or your mom, you will feel offended rite?

The gift of females is pure Compassion. They actually feel far more than man and is always looking for a person who can commit. It is their duty to embrace the call to build. "Finance, marriage and emotional strength of the family is based on the female of the family" Says Ps. Choo. She meant that if the woman is not willing to commit to those or gives up, everything falls.

So woman are good builders -> as they should Value their looks, do have great Compassion built in them and must appeal to the Call to Build (building value back to a man also)

In the bible, it actually states that God created woman as help-made or help-mate. So how can we actually help each other to be a Better man or woman?

Bottom-line
-No Hidden Agenda
-No Manipulation
-No Deception
-No Domination

-So we should build a community, challenge each other to grow and create a cycle of giving and receiving love and kindness =)

Ps: some interesting photos below haha

Was twittering about Run For The Nation. This is a awesome video about it.

Lost

When You're Lost, this is a song that HITS the Spot ^^ (It's 31 on UK top 40 this month)
Just felt like sharing this song =) The lyrics are below you can sing along if you like.

Wait, I'm wrong
Should have done better than this
Please, I'll be strong
I'm finding it hard to resist
So show me what I'm looking for

CHORUS
Save me, I'm lost
Oh lord, I've been waiting for you
I'll pay any cost
Save me from being confused
Show me what I'm looking for
Show me what I'm looking for…oh lord

Don't let go
I've wanted this far too long
Mistakes become regrets
I've learned to love abuse
Please show me what I'm looking for

CHORUS
Save me, I'm lost
Oh lord, I've been waiting for you
I'll pay any cost
Save me from being confused
Show me what I'm looking for
Show me what I'm looking for…oh lord

Show me what I'm looking for
Show me what I'm looking for
Show me what I'm looking for

CHORUS
Save me, I'm lost
Oh lord, I've been waiting for you
I'll pay any cost
Just save me from being confused
Wait, I'm wrong
I can't do better than this
I'll pay any cost
Save me from being confused
Show me what I'm looking for
Show me what I'm looking for
Show me what I'm looking for
Show me what I'm looking for…oh lord

Bottom-line
- Time to time we humans like to make arguments. It is just so hard to admit we are wrong sometimes rite? But the solution is simple just admit you're wrong and say sorry sincerely.

- When we are lost we neglect things and when we recover from it only then we realize what is so damn important to us. Cherish it all =)one day you might lose it.

- It's never to late to apologize (don't agree to the too late to apologize song). Eg one scenario in case of best friends fighting : Maybe in slightest chance, you won't be able to be best buds any more but still it liberates you.

- A lot of the times we make mistakes and it becomes a regret but still we have to move forward (no choice no stopping). I just want to take this opportunity to say sorry here to anyone whom I've upset. It's easy to say "well live the moment, make the best of the moment so you won't regret it".

- Time to time we get so caught up with our lives that we forget to Thank God for what he has blessed us with. We have to be thankful right =)

- Sometimes we want something so badly but we just can't have it and we blame God why? Simple explanation is that maybe it's just not good for you that is why God didn't give it to you yet.

A thing to think about. Are you sure you are willing to pay the cost like in this song? How much are you willing to sacrifice?

Bio-Resonance Therapy

I guess it's been a long time since I visited this place. I've shared about it to quite some people. It's an idea worth sharing. The last time I visited was last year. I wanted to check it out for myself before I even share it. I had serious sinus problems and after the treatment I rarely have sinus problems. Thanks guys =)

It's a technology from Germany (systems derived from Nazi time on human testing). Bio-resonance can actually detect like cancer before it even happens. It has help countless people who had diabetes, cancer and others. Where and who sorry I can't say, I don't have their permission (didn't ask them also).

A real story, the person who actually learned how to function this machines. She was diagnose cancer one day. Doctors all quote to her to do chemotherapy. But her strong will and with the help of this machines she didn't do it. Doctors say she could only live for a short more time, guess what it's been 12 years already. Her friends who had done chemotherapy all left earth. Inspiring !! Doctors can't tell you not to do chemotherapy, they must tell you to do it and it is their procedure. Doctors actually don't even believe in chemotherapy. Did you know that? That is why if you have time, go look for a book call Dead Doctors Don't Lie. From my experience I never trust Doctors 100%, a second opinion is always necessary.

When I say second opinion, I mean find another expert doctor also. Don't just settle on any opinion even if it is the same. Try to take your time to check other doctors like Chinese doctors. Not everything can be cured by chemicals, you have to think organic methods too. Don't go be a guinea pig and consume everything people say is good. You end up affecting your liver and cause side effects to your body @ more complications. Consult a friend who is expert in this. In this case if you know me you can get some information from me =)

Today I went for regular check up. Hmm the last time, I was detected to have high doses of free radicals. This time no, I guess probably though I do use the computer a lot but not as much as last time hor? (no more a gamer, retired, only play for social) I was detected like out of 50 I got 35 for my gall bladder. Normal is 40, great is 50, according to them it's not a big worry, the strain is prolly me consuming a lot of dirty food =)

Then goes parasite, environmental loads and allergies test. I was detected Tapeworm, Lice, Leishmania, Schitosoma, Trichomonads and Sensory organ worms. I feel lazy to explain what those are. It detected that this are the things that affect my liver and my gall bladder. I think you can Google it. I didn't have any of this the last time I came. Guess eating out a lot causes this? Treatment was done and Woah the next time any of this is in my system my immune system is registered to already know what to do. Zap em!!

INFINITY

Here's my key Philosophy, a freak like me just needs INFINITY!

Relax, Take Your Time

Take Your Time To Trust In Me and You Will Find INFINITY!

INFINITY YEAH ?!! (Heart Beat Pumps)

[My key impression]

This video is kinda LOUD so if you don't like LOUD either turn your volume down or watch the alternate link below (but it has no lyrics and is really short).



Piano version by DJ Flo. Wow who can play the piano like this? Teach Teach!!

Bottom-line
- The potential of a Human is a constant. This constant is called INFINITY. We have an awesome power the brain. Are we human or are we denser? With great power comes great responsibility. The Responsibility to share, inspire, help, improve, teach with the full use of your talents given to you.

- The minute you do something to help or make a change, it actually expands and works to an INFINITY and beyond. It can be a small thing and rest assure the small thing that you did, made a big change in the future. You might not see it now, but have a little faith =)

- Find the Constant that is INFINITY in your lives. Tap On To It. The possibility to Love, learn & Share is INFINITE!!

Ps: woots this is my 100th post

SMILE

Something that everyone can identify and associate to in this video. I really like making people smile. If I can make my love ones smile every single time it would mean the world to me. So whose gonna make me smile when I'm sad, I wonder.

Make someone smile today. If you see ppl who look stressful or had a long day at work put a smile on their face =) Sometimes trying to make someone smile doesn't work like in the video but some how you'll touch some people's life for sure.

Tell me who doesn't want to be HAPPY? Same question as are you SLEEPING? - If you do answer that means you aren't sleeping, it can't be answered. Well, if you answer you don't want to be happy is kinda a lie which means you want to be happy.